Is it possible to completely abstain from arguing? Lately in society, the inner workings of hate, confrontation, and human negativity have risen. Arguing arrives in the forms of social, relationship, political, business, and on and on. In today's world, there is a lake full of human arguing, and harmful words being thrown around.
What is causing this rise in personal disdain and meanness? Is it Global Warming? Currently the painful, skin torching, hurtful, plant killing summer sun sure has dampened my existing moods. 100 degree Fahrenheit plus heat, has powers. As Summer in the south nears its July, August, pinnacle, the exterior torching sun, may be to blame, for our angsty human moods.
Maybe the earth's weather has a stronger impression on our human emotions than we think. Why do you think residents of California are always
"so chill". Well If I were living in a constant, mild 70 degree and sunny weather UTOPIA, my mood and external ambiance would be merrily relaxed too.
The theme for our topic today, is to discuss how we as humans can live life together with less verbal harshness, and with fewer verbal daggers, and mean linguistic lunges amongst each other. Do you, our wonderful Sample Spectrum reader have any suggestions? How can we as society live more peacefully cohesively? And no, a steady pill prescription of vicodin, valium, and zanex does NOT count as an answer.
It just seems that our current world is way to adversarial. The best parts of my life, are when I am not working. When I am simply out and about in society, and the world, I can find contentedness easily. Personally I find a joyful serenity in simply going on a bike ride, lounging by the pool, attending a movie, or going out at night to imbibe, interact and be happily merry.
What are your favorite zen like activities? How do you unwind? Where, when and how are you, our fantastic reader at peace?
Once, my work-life begins, it is an emotional roller coaster of rejection, client unknowns, fellow realtor meanness, price negotiation, and terms war. In previous times, I was an excellent and happy cold caller. I was able to undauntedly navigate the terrain of new business development. Recently I've been hit with a flood of rejection. This rejection is spilling over into my regular happy life. In current times, this barrage of business rejection, has hurt my personal social skills. Even as a single straight handsome man, I don't even attempt to talk to new pretty girls or potential dates anymore.
I have become so numb to rejection, that I'd rather just live, watch TV, breathe, and sleep than deal with anymore of it. Is there a job out there, that people want to pay for? Is there an industry, where society is happy to interact with you? If so, thanks for sharing.
Here's an idea. Maybe I would be an excellent politician? I could give it try. Why do I think that? Well, in my mind, I think I seem to have a pulse on the greater good, and societal feelings of the public. I think I am very relate-able, approachable and easy to talk to. I detest arguing, and enjoying finding common ground to get something done. I get along well with most of society. I'm easy going, and open-minded to different demographics of our culture. I can understood the poor man's plight, just as easily as the millionaire next door. Maybe I will run for some sort of office one day. Then I'd have a reason to talk to people, and for them to talk to me. Once elected, I could serve and help all of society! That'd be cool. I think we as humans are always searching for our true calling in life.
My personal loathing of arguing, is why I knew from the beginning, that I'd never want to be a lawyer. Don't lawyers have to argue all day, all the time. Don't they get sick of trying to create conflict out of nothing? Always trying to overpower the opposite side with their version of truth. Ugghh.. just thinking about arguing all day as a profession, makes my stomach cringe.
The goal of discussing this topic, is for our society to adjust and learn how to work and live together more cohesively. You'd think we were animals or something? Perhaps, learn how to achieve your goals by abstaining from negativity, hatred, and meanness. Use the welcoming, and honest mode to express your thoughts and endearing sentiments.
Or just move to an Exotic, Foreign, Beach ISLAND and chill your soul out. Peace.
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