Attractive Tales from Grand Cities, a Social Memoir

Is it possible to completely abstain from arguing? Lately in society, the inner workings of hate, confrontation, and human negativity have risen. Arguing arrives in the forms of social, relationship, political, business, and on and on. In today's world, there is a lake full of human arguing, and harmful words being thrown around. What is causing this rise in personal disdain and meanness? Is it Global Warming? Currently the painful, skin torching, hurtful, plant killing summer sun sure has dampened my existing moods. 100 degree Fahrenheit plus heat, has powers. As Summer in the south nears its July, August, pinnacle, the exterior torching sun, may be to blame, for our angsty human moods. Maybe the earth's weather has a stronger impression on our human emotions than we think. Why do you think residents of California are always "so chill" . Well If I were living in a constant, mild 70 degree and sunny weather UTOPIA, my mood and external ambiance would be mer...

I personally am a very large proponent and cheerleader for human DIVERSITY . The more diverse, welcoming, and friendly our culture and society can be, the better. I sometimes wonder, where and why bigotry, stereotypes, and racism still exist in modern day, post millennium times. When you are born those feelings are not there. While in Kindergarten, and as a kid, no one cares or notices those aforementioned traits. Nope. In grade school, all you care about is making decent grades, playing with friends on the playground, and eating foods you enjoy. Nowhere on the radar, does human discrimination enter the mind. Thus, is human hatred a learned trait? If so, quit teaching it. I don't care for it, I don't get it, and I don't practice it. People are people. We are all alive, human, and pleasantly stuck together on this earth. We're ALL in the big SHIP together. So let's enjoy the ride. There are numerous advantages to diversity. Diversity in the world, keeps lif...

What does the lifestyle of "Lone Wolf" mode entail? The mindset of a person whom prefers to go at it alone, is most likely a heavy extrovert. I currently prefer a lone wolf style of daily life actions. Lone Wolf personality types sometimes feel that large social groups can hold them back and deter their freedoms. For example, when one is a cog in a huge dinner party or social group, they tend to be at the mercy of the larger groups decisions. What if you disagree with the larger groups decisions, and would prefer to create your own path instead? The person who adheres to the lone wolf mindset, never has the aforementioned problem. The single, freedom carrying torch bearer is their own entity. The lone wolf mantra is gender neutral . There are numerous pros of going through life as your own mercenary. You get to personally choose, when, where and how, all the time. If you feel like spending the night out on the town, you are free to go, discover, and engage with socie...

We need excellent, kind, wonderful, women in this world, now more than ever. A life alone, is a challenging one. Women are completely necessary and required for human life here on earth. As a straight single man, or even as a single person, I can not do it all by my self. Women, we need your entire skill sets, abilities, nurturing, smarts, kindness, will power, intellect, love and more. Unleash and open up the box. Do keep in mind, it is possible to be both authoritarian and respected, without becoming a prick. The encouraging rise in women's rights, power, and workplace authority grows everyday. This is welcomed and embraceable news. Women are needed in the modern 21st century, now more than ever. In decades past of the 1950's, women were precieved solely as mothers, home makers and domestic leaders. Today's modern world has completely shifted towards a new dynamic power in women's roles. In today's world, more is asked of the female race. Unfortunately g...

Is our democratic, freedom oriented culture and society, welcoming? Yes, for sure it is! Freedom as an entity itself is a wonderful thing! Unfortunately there are still citizens of this globe, living in depressed countries with authoritarian, and uncivilized regimes going on. The pros to freedom are independent choices and non judgmental living. Coupled with the ability to work and live almost anywhere. The USA has 50 states, of which I still have yet to visit half of them. Personally, I need to get out and travel more, but we shall save my abyssal, puny travel record for another day. So, What are the Downsides to Freedom? The major downside to freedom is lack of use. If you don't use a particular right, or freedom, it can possibly backfire against you. Think of muscles that atrophy due to lack of use. The sedentary, and conservative life can become disadvantageous. People stuck and burrowed into 1 specific job, and place of residence, may be hindering their overall value a...

Just as our society and culture has become an "instant gratification" world, it has also evolved into an "I, Economy." Let me attempt to explain. In the American Capitalist financial market, job placement and economy, each individual person is their own brand. Sure, you can change jobs, alter industries and physically move from one city to another. Yet, inevitably, each individual human carries their own brand and entrepreneurial spirit along with them. Your name, skills, and abilities are aspects of your brand. The people you know and your sphere of influence is an element of your brand. Your previous occupations and connections are a part of your brand. Your successes, triumphs, and setbacks are included within your brand. In yesteryear and previous centuries, the American worker was loyal to the Union and Company. In today's modern world, the American worker is loyal to himself. As individuals, we often think, "what's in this for me?...

That's all I want in life right now! Bank is code for Money. Fancy cars is code for possessing a luxurious, smooth, impressive, cool automobile . Women is code for being surrounded, and sexually hounded by attractive single ladies. Lastly Travel is code for Anthony Bourdian style, authentic travel. Travel within the context of admiring local geoghraphic influences. When Anthony Bourdian travels on his excellent TV Show, he infultrates a city's organic food, history, and human culture! It is a fantastic, entertaining, engaging show. I highly reccomend it! I am envious, as I too, also wish to live the "Anthony Bourdain lifestyle" . Personally, at this current day and time, still do NOT wish to be tied down with marriage, a desk shackling job, children, or some other life restraining entity. In so far aquiring fat bank accounts. How do you plan to re-obtain this GVM? Well, previously I have successfully served real estate clients in the buying and selling o...